Girls...CheCk It OuT!!

It’s a myth that couples should have no secrets---Some subjects should always remain off limits in case they lead to jealousy, insecurity or doubts. Here are the things that you should never ever tell your boyfriend!!!

1. “I’ve had 100 lovers”---This will only make your boyfriend feels insecure and arguments will occur from there.

2. “You’re getting flabby”---Maybe his tummy isn’t the splendid six pack it used to be but don’t tell him in the direct way or his self-image will plummet. The more accurate way is to tell him that: “I think we both need exercise, I am not feeling as fit as I used to be. How bout going for badminton or swimming.” Problem solved!!

3. “Your best friend has a crush on me or your best friend confessed to me”--- Girls, this is critical. Do not ever breathe a word bout this to your boyfriend as it may ruin the friendship between your boyfriend and his best friend. Just settle it by yourself, reject that guy directly and tell him how much you love your boyfriend.

4. “My ex was much better than you”--- Are you crazy? Bringing up anything an ex did and saying he did it well is like waving a red flag at a bull. Your boyfriend will feel that he needs to save face, which usually involves a jealous outburst and some manly kind of display like slamming the door or taking off his car at top speed. Of course, you will not be happy if your boyfriend keeps on telling you how great his ex was!!

5. “I hate your mother”---Even if he has to spend an hour character assassinating his mother because she is manipulative and critical, avoid the temptation to zoom in by adding that she is mean spirited, dominates the conversation and has lousy dress sense. Your boyfriend will feel incredibly embarrassed and uncomfortable. Remember that this is his mother and not yours, which means he has carte blanche to say whatever he wants about her, but not YOU!!!

6. “I think that guy is cute”---Whether you’re all aglow when you look at a good-looking in the pub or the waiter in the restaurant, you boyfriend will definitely don’t want to know that you are thinking of anyone, but not him.

7. “My best friend thinks you’re hot”---It’s a total ego boost to hear friends telling you that they think you’ve got the ultimate catch. But resist the temptation to tell him. All men love an audience and he will start playing with her through flirting or driving too fast to show that he is the man. So if your friends talk about how cute, smart and sexy your man is, just listen, agree, and bathe in the glow of his glory.

8. “How much do you love me”---Do not ever ask this question girls. This will only make your boyfriend feels irritating. By asking this, you are actually giving him a kind of feel that you do not trust him.

No matter how close you feel to him, something is better left unsaid.